One of the many things I love about Niger is how people value fellowship. Time in the country of “sei hakuri” (have patience) does not equal money. Here, people live according to a different set of social rules, and do not see spending time with one another as unfruitful. Being together is one of the social highlights. If there is one thing I have changed about my life after the passing of my mother, it’s not to take any time that we have with one another for granted. Here is an outstanding example where the Western world has something to learn from the poor: for they do not take the time we are able to spend with one another for granted, but make full use of it instead.

Copyright Eden Foundation 2008

One of the things I like about Nigerien society in general is how children are included in all things. There is a place for them in Niger, in contrary to other stressful societies where kids spend most of their time separated from their families.

I’ve been asked many times in my life where I’d want to raise my kids, and if I’m going to choose between Sweden and Niger, my choice is simple. In Sweden, I work so much and at the end of the day, I am left wondering what for. In Niger, I sometimes work even more, but my job gives me true satisfaction and the time I have left is spent being with people and feeling life, without being on the run. Having lived in both world, that is precious in my book. Despite the lack of material comforts, I’m privileged to be living in Niger, as it gives me so much life quality I wouldn’t possibly be able to find in a speedy society. There is a lot of be learned from the poor, but for us to do that, we have to stop-

And take a moment.

Copyright Eden Foundation 2008

Trust me, you’ll be surprised at what you’ll find!