This past weekend, a long-time dream finally took place -and you know how those are always worth waiting for! Thanks to the Aussie saddle that Paige had brought out for us, my father was finally able to join me for a ride in the bush!!
My father with his parents and sister in Australia (1971)
He used to ride as a teenager in Australia and loved it. At the age of eighteen, he moved back to Norway, which is not known for its horseback riding culture. Soon, he had married my mom. The two of them founded Eden and moved their family to the least developed country in the entire world. The coming twenty years were spent building a project from scratch that would one day enable the poorest of the poor to lead a sustainable life, but no one knew then how long it would take for the vision of Eden to come alive. Working around the clock, there was never any time to go horseback riding. My mother didn’t have the health to ride, and doing things apart never scored high on my parents’ list of favourite pastimes, compared to the things they could do together!
Tack was another issue. I needed a saddle that was sturdy enough to carry my father’s frame, and the Australian saddle (that just arrived) was it! Sahara was the obvious mount, as she is our biggest barb (she grew 7 cm in height in our care, even though we bought her at the age of three!) and the two of them connected instantly.
Being a dominant mare, Sahara has always had certain “issues” of wanting to keep track of the other horses in the flock, but this was the first time I saw her completely relaxed and just concentrated on further instructions. My father did not care for a crop and has not taken a riding lesson in his entire life, but leadership comes naturally to him and so does horsemanship. Even after a gap of 38 years!
We rode out to the Kanya village and enjoyed the beautiful scenery, passing a nomad family that had set up camp in the fields.
From Kanya, we power-walked to Kasheni, and from there turned to head home. By then, Sahara was starting to get that worried look which she gets when she is afraid that she will not be allowed to stretch her legs and go for the horizon-
But who can resist a forwardly cantor when offered one?
Not me, and not my father - even though he had not sat in a saddle for nearly four decades!
Soon enough, Sahara was speeding away with all her power, eager to show my father her talents!
This was not a slow cantor, for trust me, I was having trouble shooting steady pictures on my own flying mount!
By the time we reached the end of the bush, the horses felt as if they had just warmed up and let us know on clear terms that they would have been willing to go on for much longer.
Although we took it fairly easy, it was an amazing ride. I cannot even describe how much it meant to me to be flying across that plain with my father. It was such an enjoyable shared moment! We did have a minor setback with the saddle rocking in full speed (the tree is too wide for our slender horses) and I will have to work on a solution until our 2nd generation of barb horses (who are growing like weeds and will most certainly reach their full potential) are old enough to be ridden, but over all, it was a grand experience with eager horses, eager humans, a quality moment and a gorgeous bush!
Sahara’s only complaint was that we didn’t go further and faster, but I say that was not a bad comeback after a 38 year long saddle absence!

















30 users commented in " Back in the saddle - after 38 years! "
Follow-up comment rss or Leave a TrackbackYour father looks so happy! I think it’s time to buy him a pair of boots. I hope he keeps riding with you. What a great thing to do together.
That was a lovely story to see! Thank you.
I can put out a picture of my treeless saddle, I think the horses will love it.
So how much of your life have You spent in Norway?
What a wonderful & treasured experience to go riding with your father after such a long time - it’s moments like these, that make life so special. Thanks for sharing it with your readers
What a fun ride! Your dad’s smile says more than words. It looks like he had a great time. You may need to invest in a more substantial pad for the Aussie saddle and maybe a shorter girth. It’s good that you had the breastplate on so the saddle didn’t roll. I hope your dad enjoys the rest of his time with you!
I see where your adventurous genes come from! You have the same great smile that your dad has. What a wonderful father-daughter experience you had on Saturday. I hope you will have many more horseback rides with your dad.
That last photo says it all. What a wonderful time to spend with your father. Is this the start of many more such rides?
Esther….great photos and a beautiful story. I can tell you from a parents point of view, that riding with my daughter and grandchildren is an amazing experience. Your father looks like he feels the same way. The horse even looks happy!
Your dad sure looks happy. It must have been an awesome time for the two of you.
wow -that looked awesome! I’ve made som linking to Eden foundation on twitter… if you get one new donator it’s worth it!
How wonderful and you ahve the best conditions to ride in too. He looks like he had a ball!
Oh wow, Esther, what a wonderful experience to share with your father. I trust this is the beginning of many more rides in the bush. Sorry, I have no idea what a tree, breastplate or pad is… I love all animals; horses are especially beautiful to me but I know nothing about riding them. Thanks for sharing the ride with us. Hugs Jo
Your father looks like a natural horseman. How nice for you both that you’ll now be able to ride together.
I’m amazed that you could get any kind of photo while cantering along! I’d never be steady enough.
How was your dad the next day?
I doubt I would have been walking. Hope you get many more rides together.
it ate it! 2nd try now……..
Awe, What a lovely time riding with your father in the bush! Most excellent! He looks so thrilled Esther…I love it! I bet you had glee in your eyes as well.
Must inquire…about the no toed to no shoe policy you have adapted therein Africa. Very relaxed, hummm.
Makes me wince, truthfully.
I love all your lovely toes and beautiful feet that bring such sweet news often. “~” Kac
how cool for your dad to pick up horse-back-riding again after so many years! lovely photos!
38 years, it´s as long time as I have been alive. That gives a lot of hope and ideas. Thanks!
I just loved your post, it warmed my heart to think of you happy and spending special time with your dad and your beautiful horses.
We used to ride horses in the province while I was a kid, sans the saddle
Look at that smile on his face! It is easy to tell he is having a great time back in the saddle again!
Cool le papa… Un vrai cow boy… It remembers me the famous song….
I’m a poor lonesome cowboy.
I’ve a long long way from home.
And this poor lonesome cowboy.
Has got a long long way to home.
Over mountains and over prairies…
Cheers,
Z.
that looks like a wonderful day - both your dad and sahara look very happy!
That is great that you got to share that with your father!
What a heart warming story. I am so glad you were able to enjoy that experiance with your father. I am sure you won’t soon forget it.
What a heartwarming story!
What a wonderful story. Thank you for sharing.
That smile on your father’s face tells the whole story! What a great ride! Hope you get to do it again soon.
Love this! So glad you have a new way to spend time with your father! Quite brave of him to run through the bush on horseback after such a time, and it sounds as if Sahara is glad! Wishing you many, many communcal trail rides!
What a great post, I love your pictures at the canter! He looks SO happy in that last picture! You can tell he has been bitten by the horse bug again!
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